The Power of Pausing: How Two Baecations Reminded Me Why Moms Need to Put Themselves First
If there’s one thing I’ve learned recently, it’s this: rest is not a reward—it’s a requirement.
After a whirlwind few weeks packed with not one but two back-to-back baecations, I’m finally home, unpacking (mentally and literally), and reflecting on how necessary it is for women—especially moms—to pause and pour back into themselves.
I was lucky enough to sneak away on two trips: one with my girls, the other with my partner. Each getaway served up different kinds of joy, laughter, and connection, but both reminded me of the same truth—when you create space for joy, you create space for yourself.
Life Doesn’t Stop Because You Took a Break
Too often, moms (and honestly, women in general) carry this belief that stepping away means falling behind. That if we go offline, unplug, or prioritize fun—we’re somehow failing. The truth? Life actually gets better when you take that pause.
I’ve had moments on this journey—hard ones. (If you’ve been here a while, you know the moments I mean.) And yet, every time I choose to fill my cup—whether it’s dressing up, laying by the beach, laughing with friends—I come back with more energy, clarity, and compassion for my family and myself.
Our kids don’t just want a present mom. They want a joyful one. And that means giving ourselves permission to do what makes us feel alive.
Fashion, Function & Fun: My Travel Go-Tos
Of course, as your resident fashion bestie, I couldn’t do all this travel without turning a few heads along the way. So yes, there were outfits. Really good outfits. Looks that made me feel confident, comfy, and totally me—whether I was poolside or sipping cocktails at sunset.
I’ve linked my favorite vacation fits below each photo, along with a few new finds I’m obsessed with and some travel staples that made being a stylish, low-maintenance mom on the go actually possible. From carry-on beauty hacks to throw-on-and-go dresses, I’ve got you covered.
Why This Isn’t Just About Vacations
Let’s be clear—this isn’t really about the baecation. Or the dresses. Or the aesthetic cocktails. This is about giving ourselves permission to choose joy. To get dressed for us. To travel for us. To unplug, even if the laundry is waiting.
It’s about remembering that when you feel like you’re running on empty, the world doesn’t need you to push harder—it needs you to pause.
Because when we rest, we rise. When we play, we heal. And when we prioritize joy, we parent from a place of wholeness—not burnout.
Final Thoughts
So wherever you are right now—whether it’s daydreaming about your next getaway or knee-deep in toddler chaos—I hope you remember this: You’re allowed to live. Fully. Loudly. Softly. Wildly. However you want to.
And if you need a sign to take the trip, buy the dress, or just take a deep breath and do nothing for once—this is it.
Here’s to living, loving, and looking damn good doing it.
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